Wednesday, August 7, 2013

When Life Gives You Lemons

Are you worried? Disturbed by the problems that affecting you? Broken into pieces while travelling in a struggling life journey? Don’t wonder “Why meee?” everyone gets their share. Some problems are obvious and some hidden. But we have all got them whether we admit it or not.
There is no way to live a life free of setbacks, disappointments and betrayals. Solving life problems is all about dealing with them in a way that it doesn’t break us. Problems aren’t causing you trouble. You are using problems to cause yourself trouble.
I know. I have been there. I have tried many things to deal with them. Most of the things I tried haven’t really worked. But through the trial and error process, I did manage to find a few things worked for me. I put them all together and share with you and hopefully give you few tips for outsmarting your own lemons.
Eliminate your problems
                Secret to a problem free life is the problems don’t need to be eliminated from your life, only from your mind. Focus is on eliminating the mental stress that most people experience when they have problems.
Move on
                Rather than wasting time on old memories, move on by taking things easier. I know it’s hard to do, but its one of the secret to lead a life unbothered by problems.
Set aside
                Whenever a negative thought intrudes, tell yourself that this is not the right time to worry and set aside your worries.
Know your strength
                Self knowledge is more important. Know about your ability to deal the problems in right attitude.
List out
                Try to list out the positive things in you and be creative with what you choose to do. Avoid all the negative people by whom you feel lowered. Do things that make you happy in the way it should not harm others.
                So don’t try to escape from your problems, learn to face it and live along. When life gives you lemons, don’t worry, sell them and become rich and make others wonder how you did it.

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