Heart Feelings 22

Life game starts,

In auto play mode,

With no rewinds of the past,

No fast forward of future,

Stuck up by the errors in present,

Waiting to end,

Till the game is over.

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I Am A Doll

Just like others

I was born & tested,

Dressed & decorated

For a fresh start

To the journey of my life,

Chosen by many,

But left as an option,

I was longing to go,

On a fine moment,

I was handed to my possessor,

My life turned on,

 I was happy,

When pampered & hugged

Cherished moments on roll

Happy days follow,

With time I fade,

Lost beauty & charm

I failed to admire my possessor,

Time to time,

I faced kick offs

And some throw away,

I cried & screamed

In much pain & agony

I left to be alone & ignored,

I prayed & questioned god,

Why am I suffering?

God replied,

The answer is within you,

Me? I looked at my reflection

Then I realized

I am a doll

Without feelings,

With some parts missing!

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Transform Your Life As New

Do you sometimes feel like your life is struck and you can’t get out? We all do from time to time. I remember before I sleep all I could think about was everything that was going wrong in my life. I would think about all the things that I wasn’t achieving and wished that something will happen one day to make everything better, a miracle. Unfortunately that miraculous day never came.

Why am telling you all this? Well, the point is that you are not struck permanently in the life you have now, even it may feel that way. It may sometimes feel like you should have started to change your life earlier. It may feel like it is too late now. You may look to your past and tell yourself “If only I had done this before then the things would have been different and better now”.

It isn’t too late for you to improve something in your life that you really want to change. No matter what age you are at. Over years, I learnt some ways that are really powerful enough to transform my life.

~ Be a master of your moods

                Be a master rather than a servant of your own moods. You are the ruler of the kingdom of your happiness. Do not allow other people or circumstances to make you happy or sad. Do not depend on material possessions to create happiness for you.

~ Focus on changing yourself

                It’s impossible to change the world around you. So stop fretting when people do not come upto your expectations. The best is to change yourself than trying to change others.

~ Make the best of what you have

                Its always better to make the best out of what you have than for what you think is the best. You change your life by changing your thoughts. If the thoughts you think are pure, your life will be pure.

~ Face your fears

                When you face your fears, possibilities open up. Learn to identify what you can do and what you cant while facing your fears.

~ Take responsibility

                I see people wanting to change their life, but they aren’t willing to take responsibility. When you take responsibility for the life you have created, you can begin to move forward.

                Now is the time to live the life you have already dreamed of. Turn your hopes into reality. Working together at transformations, begin your life a new.

“Fill your heart with creative power to accept the past, decorate the present and transform the future”

                                                                                                           -Osho

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Heart Feelings 15

Travelling in life doesn’t need

speed to reach the destiny. It

need all positive ways to break

hurdles that come in your way to

reach your goal. Life is not a race

to be speedy, make it meaningful

with a steady mind because what

you get in the end doesn’t matters,

but how you got it matters.

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When Life Gives You Lemons

Are you worried? Disturbed by the problems that affecting you? Broken into pieces while travelling in a struggling life journey? Don’t wonder “Why meee?” everyone gets their share. Some problems are obvious and some hidden. But we have all got them whether we admit it or not.

There is no way to live a life free of setbacks, disappointments and betrayals. Solving life problems is all about dealing with them in a way that it doesn’t break us. Problems aren’t causing you trouble. You are using problems to cause yourself trouble.

I know. I have been there. I have tried many things to deal with them. Most of the things I tried haven’t really worked. But through the trial and error process, I did manage to find a few things worked for me. I put them all together and share with you and hopefully give you few tips for outsmarting your own lemons.

Eliminate your problems

                Secret to a problem free life is the problems don’t need to be eliminated from your life, only from your mind. Focus is on eliminating the mental stress that most people experience when they have problems.

Move on

                Rather than wasting time on old memories, move on by taking things easier. I know it’s hard to do, but its one of the secret to lead a life unbothered by problems.

Set aside

                Whenever a negative thought intrudes, tell yourself that this is not the right time to worry and set aside your worries.

Know your strength

                Self knowledge is more important. Know about your ability to deal the problems in right attitude.

List out

                Try to list out the positive things in you and be creative with what you choose to do. Avoid all the negative people by whom you feel lowered. Do things that make you happy in the way it should not harm others.

                So don’t try to escape from your problems, learn to face it and live along. When life gives you lemons, don’t worry, sell them and become rich and make others wonder how you did it.

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Live Now

Everything happens in a moment, but the mind unaware of it. Every present we live will be stamped as past certainly. The mind wonders to the past or longs for the unhappened future but all these are realized in the moment. That’s now.

Being conscious in the moment opens up the possibility of a positive and promising future. Ofcourse , this doesn’t mean we don’t need to plan, set goals or prepare for future. We can do all these things and still enjoy each moment as it unfolds.

But how to live now? Its very simple. You just focus on the moment 100%. This means that you do not think about the past or project a future and keep on being in the moment only one moment at a time. Some call this as meditation and indeed your life becomes a continuous meditation. Life is not about achieving but experiencing second by second.

Everybody can live now. So there is nothing to learn or become – only to realize. The biggest hurdle to live now is haunting past and the scary future. Balance the life exactly in the middle between the past and future without any tilting to either direction.

It is a matter of the right attitude. Life becomes a happy and enjoyable trip when the attitude towards it and its events are positive and the present moment is used in the best possible way.

As our minds recreate our past in thoughts, we find that the present is always the mirror of the past. Then nothing new happens and we complain that life is always the same, that nothing changes. Weird, foolish and funny at the same time, isn’t it?

Steps to practice to live now:

• Stop thinking about past and future (atleast not more).

• Don’t rush up with your life to achieve your long term goals. You may forget to live happily.

• Don’t try to please everyone you meet in your daily life (cos half of your life will end up doing this rather than living your own).

• Do the things which you enjoy and not the ones that are forced to do.

• Do your work with enthusiasm and fun mixed (if your work is not so, then make it so in your own way).

• Stop multi-tasking often (do a single work with more concentration by enjoying it).

Will this work? Really I don’t know. But surely it will helpful to relieve the stress in your life. Try it!

Kiss your life

Accept it, just as it is

Today

Now

So that those moments of happiness

You’re waiting for don’t pass you by.

                                                -Philip Bosman

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Heart Feelings 10

At one point of view,

the person whom you

thought as your enemy

may suddenly shown as

 your friend to you and

the person whom you

 thought as your best friend

may betray you. It’s the

serious game of life and

 it’s rules always change

as often with full of unexpected

 surprises and shocks. Those

who understands this game

completely can win and

others simply stay behind

and fails in life.

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Important Lesson Of Life

I seriously don’t get to know what’s going on with the people around me. When I try to be away from them, they come closer to me and make me feel that they are the best of all buddies I have. So when I conclude they are different and be there for them when they need me, they slowly move away from me. I am fed up of the people who remember me only when they need a help. I know that everything will come to an end one day, but I never thought it will happen very soon. One day they are good, the other day they just flip. If they don’t really want me to be with them, then why they make me feel I am so much important to them? It hurts a lot to see even a small change in the people’s behavior whom I used to know very longer. They have no time for me rather they have their own special category friends list where I do not stand. I try my best not to hurt them in the same way they did to me. So I forget how they moved away from me for days and months and be still for them when they come back again to me while they feel alone without any. I really want my heart to be okay and not to care when they exclude me. But it’s very hard for my heart to understand the reality as my mind do. Step by step I am learning to move on with my life with hope and decided not to dependent on anyone and don’t let anyone to come into my life completely until they are proved to deserve my friendship.

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Changes Are Necessary

Some things that never change in the world. The stars will always shine, the moon will always glow, the sun will be hot as it is, fishes don’t stop swimming, the rain will be wet and the snow will be cooler ever and the rainbows are always colorful. People don’t stop running behind money. Pain remains painful, births and deaths are inevitable. Earth won’t stop revolving but some changes are necessary.

What you are today is a reflection of your thoughts. Change in your thoughts will change your life. Change is necessary for one to grow. One should not afraid of changes and must willingly accept it into their lives. Change indicates that you are moving forward and stepping into a new way of life.

Without changes there would be no life at all. Change occurs time to time just like a human life theory (New born->infant->kid->adult->man->growing old->death). In human life it’s common that each and everyone faced sometime, someone complaints that you are changed.

People often change the behavior, lifestyle, thoughts and attitude because they don’t know what to do most of the times. The usual reaction of people when they face changes, “Why me?”, “Why it happen always to me?”, “Why does it have to change?”

But change will always be for good. Sometimes at first glance you would disagree but after a while you will see how this change made you stronger, more experienced or simply more happy. It’s impossible to avoid change and it’s not easy to accept it either.

We simply have to accept some changes. People change, love hurts, friends leave, things go wrong but just remember life doesn’t stop for anybody. Everything has an expiry date in this world. Sometimes there are things in life that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes change may not be what we want. Sometimes change is what we need.

Concentrate on what you will do to change your life. Tell yourself that you deserve a good life. You have to make up your mind and apply yourself and walk through the fire in order to meet transformation.

            “If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies”

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How Do I Feel...

Sometimes I am happy

Sometimes I am sad

Sometimes I cry

Sometimes I feel shy

Sometimes I walk around inside home

Sometimes I let my thoughts roam around my mind

Sometimes I like to sing

Sometimes I like to swing

Sometimes I feel like a butterfly so active

Sometimes I feel like a snail so slow

Sometimes I act so funny

Sometimes I am damn serious

Sometimes I behave like a baby

Sometimes I deport very crazy

Sometimes I like to live

Sometimes I wish I could die

Sometimes I do fight

Sometimes I bind up so tight

Sometimes I remain silent

Sometimes I am violent

Sometimes I wish to disturb

Sometimes I like to ignore

Sometimes I confused to blink

Sometimes I delight to wink

Do you wanna know how do I feel now?

Hahaha, I feel like I am blabbering in my blog. That’s I am doing!!!

P.s: This is just a refreshal post

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A TUG OF WAR

D : I will win

L : No, I will win…

D : You can’t, why are you thinking too much about yourself. I won’t let you win in this race.

L : Lets see who will in the end.

D : Of course But You are alone, I have my own supporters.

     I have (DDF) along with me to win.

F : I will control his whole mind.

D : I will make him physically weak.

D : I will make him feel down from time to time and put him in deep despair.

DDF chorusly,

     We are greater than you and make our D win in this mission (hahaha) 
L : I have no one to support me (sadly with tears in eyes) I should give up here in this race.
On seeing L in misery, God sent H for L. 
L : God, why only H for my side, why not more supporters?? God smiled and said one H is enough for the whole. 
L + H won the race.
H : With me, nothing is impossible:) 
L is for Life and H is for Hope.
D is for Death, D is for Disease, D is for Depression, F is for Fear.

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HAPPINESS

Happiness-The word once we spell itself give sweet thoughts and happenings of life. Each person articulate their happiness in different ways. When I spell the letters H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S, I feel its like Happy-APPINES-Sad (life’s journey between Happy and Sad). Happy occasion can felt between two sad events. The level of joy took no effort as if the potential to love that much had been inside of me all along. Unconditional love with nature offer happiness always.

Do you agree what I mean in the above saying? Its true…see,

Rain

There is nothing more tranquil than the sound of falling rain on the roof, its rhythmic tapping on the window pane, silvery streaked lines or the soft glow of a grey sky that makes colors seem so vibrant. Feel the bright sunshine after rain refreshes the mind.

Meadow

Carpet of crisp greeny grasses all over where steep hills collide to elevate the land. Cool breeze kisses the blossoms to raise the wild fragrance and dew drops rest on the petal of flowers as a shining diamond that steal the heart with its tremendous beauty.

Sea 

Mighty sea can cool the mind, just by looking at it, the stress within can unwind. A special attraction it transmit and the dancing tides lift up our thoughts.

 

Beyond nature, nothing can replace the purest happiness on seeing a Baby’s smile. A Baby’s smile is a smile of a real happiness. A Baby’s smile can lift the soul that see and a sound of laughter that tickles the heart. It is very nice to see real happiness from a baby’s face, where darkness and evils of the world don’t exist in their wonderland. The power of an innocent smile can heal all emotional pains.

Be Happy & Make Life Meaningful

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