Everything happens in a moment, but
the mind unaware of it. Every present we live will be stamped as past
certainly. The mind wonders to the past or longs for the unhappened future but
all these are realized in the moment. That’s now.
Being conscious in the moment opens
up the possibility of a positive and promising future. Ofcourse , this doesn’t mean
we don’t need to plan, set goals or prepare for future. We can do all these things
and still enjoy each moment as it unfolds.
But how to live now? Its very
simple. You just focus on the moment 100%. This means that you do not think
about the past or project a future and keep on being in the moment only one
moment at a time. Some call this as meditation and indeed your life becomes a
continuous meditation. Life is not about achieving but experiencing second by
second.
Everybody can live now. So there is
nothing to learn or become – only to realize. The biggest hurdle to live now is
haunting past and the scary future. Balance the life exactly in the middle
between the past and future without any tilting to either direction.
It is a matter of the right
attitude. Life becomes a happy and enjoyable trip when the attitude towards it
and its events are positive and the present moment is used in the best possible
way.
As our minds recreate our past in
thoughts, we find that the present is always the mirror of the past. Then
nothing new happens and we complain that life is always the same, that nothing
changes. Weird, foolish and funny at the same time, isn’t it?
Steps to practice to live now:
• Stop thinking about past and future (atleast not more).
• Don’t rush up with your life to
achieve your long term goals. You may forget to live happily.
• Don’t try to
please everyone you meet in your daily life (cos half of your life will end up
doing this rather than living your own).
• Do the
things which you enjoy and not the ones that are forced to do.
• Do your work
with enthusiasm and fun mixed (if your work is not so, then make it so in your
own way).
• Stop
multi-tasking often (do a single work with more concentration by enjoying it).
Will this work? Really I don’t know. But surely it will helpful to relieve
the stress in your life. Try it!
Kiss your
life
Accept it,
just as it is
Today
Now
So that
those moments of happiness
You’re
waiting for don’t pass you by.
-Philip Bosman
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