Changes Are Necessary

Some things that never change in the world. The stars will always shine, the moon will always glow, the sun will be hot as it is, fishes don’t stop swimming, the rain will be wet and the snow will be cooler ever and the rainbows are always colorful. People don’t stop running behind money. Pain remains painful, births and deaths are inevitable. Earth won’t stop revolving but some changes are necessary.

What you are today is a reflection of your thoughts. Change in your thoughts will change your life. Change is necessary for one to grow. One should not afraid of changes and must willingly accept it into their lives. Change indicates that you are moving forward and stepping into a new way of life.

Without changes there would be no life at all. Change occurs time to time just like a human life theory (New born->infant->kid->adult->man->growing old->death). In human life it’s common that each and everyone faced sometime, someone complaints that you are changed.

People often change the behavior, lifestyle, thoughts and attitude because they don’t know what to do most of the times. The usual reaction of people when they face changes, “Why me?”, “Why it happen always to me?”, “Why does it have to change?”

But change will always be for good. Sometimes at first glance you would disagree but after a while you will see how this change made you stronger, more experienced or simply more happy. It’s impossible to avoid change and it’s not easy to accept it either.

We simply have to accept some changes. People change, love hurts, friends leave, things go wrong but just remember life doesn’t stop for anybody. Everything has an expiry date in this world. Sometimes there are things in life that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes change may not be what we want. Sometimes change is what we need.

Concentrate on what you will do to change your life. Tell yourself that you deserve a good life. You have to make up your mind and apply yourself and walk through the fire in order to meet transformation.

            “If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies”

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SILENCE SPEAKS MORE THAN WORDS

It was a fine morning. I was so lazy to start my works for that day. Even though I didn’t forget to get something done which is my routine, looking out the nature and feel the freshness of the misty morning from the balcony.

I haven’t presume the day might be distinctive. As like the other days I came out to live through the chillness. I began to examine the lane from start to end. My intuition warned me someone was staring at me for a long time. I rolled my eyes to look forward the bug-eyed, who was in straight opposite to my house. 

He gave me friendly sigh. As he was a stranger I didn’t express any gesture. Disappointed, he went inside his house. The next day I decided to see him in curiosity to see if he would still be there like the day before. Yes, he was there right in the very spot where he was the previous day. Today he nodded his head slightly to show the signal of welcoming me.

I was quite surprised about his behavior. Neither he knew me nor I do. So I was confused a little with his eccentric actions. Day by day, he looks extremely unique and impressive. He reflected my feelings just as a mirror and splashed the unmistakable look of despair.

Later on a gloomy day, I saw him lying on the corridor silently. He raised his head and lowered his eyes slightly to avoid my intent stare. Suddenly his master called him, he was ordered to follow behind. He passed the half way on lane along with his master, turned back his head towards me and wagged his tail in air politely as a sign of goodbye. As per his master’s command he hopped into the truck in a jerk and waved a serene look. Unknowingly he started the journey towards his final destiny from there. Now I learnt how silence could speak far much better than words.

Unspoken words, unspoken minds…I cannot read anything when I look at the expressions. Silent voices, silent eyes…The language of silence covers the emotions. Masked fantasies, masked realities…I begin to notice the true desires. Hidden secrets, hidden thoughts…for all I see are dull faces, with nothing to say. Because the only thing he have shown me is how “silence speaks louder than words”.

 

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