How Painful Is The Pain?

Have you ever questioned yourself “How Painful is the Pain?” This question often come into my mind and made me to search for the answers within.

Pain is when you wish to cry, but no tears left in your eyes to pour out. Pain is when you wish to shout or yell madly, but you can’t even raise your voice to release the heavy feelings. Pain is too much when you die yet you still live. Wanna know what make all this pain? Fall in love, yeah “love is pain”.

Love never hurts, but loving a wrong person hurts. It puts you into the grief. Perhaps, it was hurtful to you for letting go the someone you love although from your heart.

         Acceptance of a loss is not merely a defeat itself, it is just a process of gaining wisdom in life. Letting go is not really the end of love but it is the beginning of the greatest love.

         Most relationships tend to fail not because of the absence of love, but because love is always present. It’s just that one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little.

         It’s not at all the matter in love, who won or who lost, the only important thing is you must know when to hold on and when to let go. Love teaches you the lesson of life by giving pains. If you don’t get hurts then probably you won’t learn what love is.

         We can’t beg someone to stay with us in the name of love, love is not a license to make a person stay in your life. Love should be unconditional and selflessness to let go the person when he/she is not ready to be with you and find their happiness with other. You know true love is when you want your loved one to be happy even if you are not a part of their life.

         Well, remember this quote before you fall in love

            “If You’re Not Ready To Cry,

              If You’re Not Ready To Take The Risk,

              And If You’re Not Ready To Feel The Pain,

              Then You’re Not Ready To Fall In Love”